Intimacy Anorexia Test

Staying so busy that you have little time for your spouse

When issues come up your first reflex or response is to blame your spouse

Withholding love from your spouse

Withholding praise from your spouse

Withholding sex from your spouse or not being present during sex

Withholding spiritual connection from your spouse 

Unwilling or unable to share your authentic feelings with your spouse

Using anger or silence to control your spouse

Having ongoing or ungrounded criticism (spoken or unspoken) towards your spouse

Controlling or shaming your spouse regarding money or spending