The Intimacy Anorexia Test

Take the intimacy anorexia test below.

Test Tips: Think about your relationship and partner or spouse's behavior. Answer these questions "Yes" or "No" in relation to their behavior.

Intimacy Anorexia Test

Do they stay so busy that they have little time for you?
When issues come up, is their first reflex or response to blame you?
Do they withhold love from you?
Do they withhold praise from you?
Do they withhold sex from you or are they not emotionally present during sex?
Do they withhold spiritual connection from you?
Are they unwilling or unable to share their authentic feelings with you?
Do they use anger or silence to control you?
Do they have ongoing or ungrounded criticism (spoken or unspoken) towards you?
Do they control or shame you regarding money or spending?
Do you feel more like a roommate than a lover in your relationship?